Recently, Xixi has been acting unusual. The most frequent word coming out from her mouth is "DON'T WANT!!!"
It can start "Don't Want" right after she step in the house.
- Dun wan take off the shoes
- Dun wan put the shoes in cabinet
- Dun wan wash hands & feet
- Dun wan eat dinner
& the list goes on.
It's a big challenge to both Daddy & myself.
Daddy has no clue how to deals with the sudden change of Xixi, Mummy is too tired to handle her. We also do not wish to raise up the voice as it will affect YiYi although most of the time she will be sleeping.
Until one day, Xixi's crankiness has over mummy's limit, she was caned until she looks frighten by mummy's angry action. She kept looking for daddy & refused to look at me. I felt so sorry for her that time & trying hard to cool down myself as well.
I'm glad she is willing to hug & even kiss me 5 mins after that incident, we then had story reading session together.
After this case, i've learnt - As an adult, we should be able to control our emotion well, especially when the young one can't express themselves well yet.
(XX - 2Y 8M)